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Monica Bielanko
A chronicle since 2005 of my marriage & move to Brooklyn in my twenties; becoming a mother in my thirties; moving to Pennsylvania and learning to amicably coparent after divorce in my forties while living 3 doors down from my ex-husband in a small country town.
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I'm sorry. I've all but abandoned the blog as of late. I keep meaning to get back to it because all I'm writing on other places is divorcedivorcedivorce and it can be such a drag but I just can't find the time even though my favorite space to write is this here website. I'll get back to it on a regular basis, I promise. Meantime, here's a round-up of stuff I've written lately if you aren't a friend on Facebook (go ahead and friend me, that's where the action is going down and the more the merrier) and haven't read my stuff elsewhere. You can also click the and Babble buttons in the sidebar over there to your right and peruse at your leisure.

5 Life-Changing Realizations in 2014 Thanks To Divorce

Single Mom Seeks Single Dad For Brady Bunch Fun!

Taking Back My Sexuality

When Your Soon To Be Ex Is Your Soulmate

To Avoid a Broken Heart, Do Not Love

Reinventing Myself in My Ex-Husband's World